29 October 2009

"Son, wake up ...'ve adzan dawn. Siapin mother udah breakfast on the table ..."




This tradition has lasted 20 years, since the first time I can remember.
Now I was in my head I was 3 and a miner disebuah Employees.,
but the habits you never change.
"I love ... ga worry Mom, I and my brothers and sisters've grown." I said to my mother one morning. The old face was instantly changed. Even when my mother took me to lunch at a restaurant. Hurriedly pull out money and pay it all. Want to get every damned you for this service with the results
sweat. The look on sadly it could not be hidden.

Why are you easily upset? I could only concoct, phase I may now have difficulty understanding the mother because of an article I read .. elderly people can be very sensitive and tend to
being a kid ..... but I dunno .... Instead, my intention to make you happy sad. As usual, my mother would never say anything

One day kuberanikan to ask "Mom, I maafin that has hurt the feelings of my mother. What makes you sad?"
I looked at the corners of my mother's eyes, no tears there. Stammered Mother said, "All of a sudden you feel you no longer need her. You are an adult, was able to support themselves. She could no longer make breakfast for you, you can no longer jajanin you. All
already you can do yourself "

Ah, O God, turned out for a Mother .. struggled to serve the sons and daughters are a joy. One thing that had never noticed before. Intention can be happy even make parents become sad because we are not trying to open up each other see the meaning of happiness from the perspective of each.

I secretly bermuhasabah. .. What have you to Mother kupersembah in my age? Is there any mother happy and proud of her son?
When was I asked the mother. She said "Many happy kid who you give to the mother. You grow up healthy and funny when the baby is a joy.
You're doing well in school is a pride for my mother.
You excel in a job is a pride for my mother.

As an adult, you should behave as a servant, it was happiness for you. Every time your eyes twinkle of happiness suggests that's where the old people's happiness. "

Again I can only utter "O God Ampunkan if I had been very little sincerity that I gave to my mother. There are many reasons when you want something." How patient my mother through the twists and turns of life. As a career woman should have a lot of reasons that could
She posed for "leave" from work home or leave the job to assistants. But no! My mother was an idealist,


Arranging family, caring for and educating children is the prerogative of a mother who would be delegated to anyone. Mother 3 at dawn and woke us up to tahajud. Waiting for the dawn my mother into the kitchen to prepare breakfast while I and the brothers often fell asleep again ...

Ah, we maafin Mother ... 18 hours a day as a "worker" as if nothing ever makes you tired .. Can I O God?

"Son ... son woke up, the dawn call to prayer .. udah udah breakfast siapin dimeja Mother .."

This time I jumped immediately .. I opened the bedroom door and throw my mother as warm as possible, I kiss her cheek that began wrinkled, I looked into her eyes and I say "thank you, I was very lucky to have a good mother
heart, allow me a happy Mother ...".

I saw bright beams of happiness. .. My love is yours, Mother ... I still need you so badly. .. I'm sorry I can not describe the sense of happiness for Yourself ..

Friend .. not always the word love should be expressed with the phrase "I love you ...", but that, Allah tells us to
convey a sense of love that we have the people we love because of God. Let's start from the nearest person who was passionate about our ...
Mother and father even though they never requested and may have gone.
Believe .. . the words that would make them very meaningful and happy.
Wallaahua'lam,

"Oh God, love my mother, give me a chance to be happy Mother ..." and if the time comes you you call, call in a state khusnul khatimah. Please forgive all his sins and he had to care as he loved me while I was a kid

31 July 2009

SAJADAH PANJANG outward



Ass. War. Wab.

And (remember) when We said to the angels: Sujudlah you to Adam, the sujudlah them except Satan; he reluctant and arrogant and he is of those who disbelieve. QS 2: 34

When the angels and demons in commanded by Allah SWT to kneel to give "respect ".... homage to Adam as ...... then all the angels to do ..... except Iblis who refused did not want to prostrate to Adam as. ...... and then ask Allah SWT ....

He said: O Iblis, what prevents you bow down to that I have created with both my hands. Are you proud or are you (feel) of the (more) high?. QS 38: 75 ....... and the devil is said:

Satan says: I am better than you because I am created from fire, while You created him from clay. QS 38: 76.

Satan does not want to just bow to the Prophet Adam as ..... makhluq to the creation of Allah SWT, Allah SWT ..... remove it from the heaven that has been so long in huninya ...... then how about the people - people who when the call to bow down to Allah bow down to you ...... all makhluq in creating the universe, including the Prophet Adam as the man ..... and lazy - malasan or not ...... menunaikannya Kira -- Kira PUNITIVE DAMAGES IN WHAT WILL give TO THEM BY GOD?

One of the only family member that we have a frivolous ..... - waste .... even leave the prayer ..... ...... so do not expect that the family will be close to the grace of Allah SWT .. ... close to the happiness ......

When the Prophet Moses as king after the defeat Fir'aun ..... Moses as public entities to build the Children of Israel so that they are prosperous life .... gemah ripah loh ..... a jinawi when asked by Moses as one of the Children of Israel. Moses .... O Prophet of God ...... is there any man in this world that more and more smart berilmu in compare yourself with ?.... At once as Moses in tegur by Allah SWT that science is not in punyainya is that God has given him only a few in the world .... and this person still have a more clever and more berilmu in comparing himself with ...... so soon as he repents Allah SWT on the rowing this ...... and ask Allah SWT for in the pertemukan with the people of God as told by people in a more berilmu compare himself with .... QS 18: 60 - 82

Tinggalkannya people in the Children of Israel, who lives in this prosperous condition ....... mecari to someone in accordance with the guidance of Allah SWT ...... so long after the children of Israel is abandoned by the Prophet Moses as ..... and when to return to his people .... the Prophet Moses and his people as found in conditions that have turned their lives ...... 180 ...... derajad was on leave at the time living in keberlimpahan mercy ...... become very miserable ..... far from grace of God ...... agriculture does not produce abundant harvest colored ...... trade with usury and deceitful menculasi ..... sea fish that do not produce as many first .....

As the prophet Moses to his people, conducted at the time ...... and that makes for Allah SWT and his people to steer rahmatnya is ..... ..... ..... kufur his people have not wanted to worship God One who does not establish the prayer ...... again ......

How many people around us who do not want to establish the prayer in the workplace ?..... us ...... we are in this country ..... perhaps this is indeed the reason that made this country far from the grace of Allah SWT ...... and there is a disaster for the disaster that never ends ..... the humans away from God's guidance and His Apostle ..... and they are the people - people proud because of the commandments of God. ..... like the devil against God's command to prostrate to Adam as he ......

Waspadalah brotherly akhwat ..... do not have one until the only family member that prayer ....... do not leave until there is only one employee in the workplace, leave us a prayer ...... because that can bring happiness in the family business to make ...... we ...... BAROKAH become seriously - sungguhlah antum all in this case .....

It's easy - that Allah SWT make us all ..... we are a husband wife ..... ..... our children - our children ..... friend - our friend to be ..... The prayer .. .. and familiarize themselves to prayer in congregation and on time .... Amiin.

Wallahua'lam

Was. War. Wab

Bening and clear





Ass. War. Wab.

Read with (his) name of your Lord who created, QS 96: 1

Try to note the paragraph above ...... verse paragraph is a first down when the Prophet SAW ber seclusion in the cave Hira'..... this verse that calls us to start work in any of our ...... commanded to take the name of Allah SWT ..... that is read with "BASMALAH" ..

If comrade akhwat want their self merenungi - each ..... try to ask ourselves antum own ...... How often do we ourselves ..... we initiated any activity throughout the day by reading the "basmalah" ... ... try again in the countdown ...... how many activities that we start with reading this ..... and how many ..... forget the goods times or not at all to remember the name of God. ... when the whole series started rushing across our days - days .....

HR. Abu Daud from Abu Hurairah ra that Rasulullah SAW said: The job does not start in the name of God (basmalah ).... then the work is lost from His mercy.

If Allah SWT give his blessing to our activities, then this is the thing that will make the activity becomes easier and BAROKAH ..... when the grace of Allah SWT away from activities - activities we apaun ..... then who are we to do .. ... ..... akan we strived to be difficult .....

Biasakan from now ..... memuali for any of the series of activities to be ihkwan akhwat to the day in the name of God .... Bismillaahirrahmaanirrohiim ....

Next benamkan in the hearts of most in that whatever we do is ..... only - because of Allah SWT ...... not because the other ..... so that means all the activities we worship ..... because the value of the activity that we do that depends on the intention ...... intention that in the liver and heart ..... the only one ..... so that the intention is only for the purpose of the one .... . Dzat The One .... Allah SWT.

Imam Al Ghazali underlines in this case .... if someone do something and have a desire to get bigger than the world desires to juxtapose themselves to God .... then that person does not get the reward of amalnya Also ...... if there is a balance of both ..... between the desire to get the world themselves and approach to God ..... he still does not get the reward Align intention ..... So ..... just hope the meeting with the face of Allah SWT ...... ..... only because God is not because the other .....

And they are not to worship except Allah purify with obedience to Him (only) the right religion, and that they establish prayer and pay the obligatory charity, and that it is the right religion. QS 98: 5

Wallahua'lam

Wass.War.Wab
First Night We


by ukhtiizzah


Materials for all of us thinking ... ... .. ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... Beautiful first night we One thing as we gaze ... Tuk contemplate the beautiful first night But the night is not only full of worldly pleasure Not the first night into the clash of Adam and Eve Thus our first night of marriage with the death A night that left weeping relatives sob The day is very pampered bride ... Mandipun ... must dimandikan We are open throughout the body .... There are no sehelai benangpun cover. . There is no iota of shame ... Whole body rubbed and cleaned Dirt from the nostril and anus issued Even holes - holes itupun enclosed white cotton ... That figure ... We. That is the time that we Jasad After dimandikan .. ., Kitapun be a beautiful white dress Cloth that people rarely use ... .. Because bermerk very famous called shroud Wewangian ditaburkan to dress ... We .. The head, body. .. And feet tied Tataplah .... tataplah. We face that .. Keranda pelaminan directly prepared ... The bersanding alone ... Bridegroom in the wine around the neighboring village bertandukan The palace as a symbol of immortality origin We accompanied the slow whole family Haru and taste the companion taulan Gamelan bersyairkan adzan calm and kalimah Dzikir Akad nikahnya reading talkin ... Berwalikan liang lahat .. The witness - witnesses-gravestone gravestone. . tlah who arrived first Splash of water rose water .. introduction yearning end And finally .... . The bride arrived .. And left alone to wait ... Tuk kan mempertanggungjawab all steps of life First night together Kekasih .. Accompanied termites - termites, and earthworms Bertilamkan land in the room .. And when the 7-step tlah go .... Kitapun is asked by the Angel ... We do not know whether it will gain favor grave ... Or we get a penalty grave ... .. We do not know ... And no one knows ... .. We are strange, but never fear ... confusion. In fact favors or punishment which we received a We feel once meneteskan tears ... Seems of value that is very expensive ... He is Kekasih .. Menetapkanmu to heaven .. Or throw yourself to hell .. We certainly hope to be expert heaven ... But .... I .... Pantaskah attitude we have during this ... Referred to as expert heaven I almost throw this email but I have been given the grace to continue to read to the end. GOD, when I read this e-mail, I thought I did not have time for this .... More more more diwaktu work. Tersadar Then I thought that this is the kind of .... In fact, cause many problems in this world. We try to keep GOD in the MASJID on Friday ... ... Maybe Friday night? And when Sunset SAJA solat? We love our GOD the pain .... And certainly have the time of death ... However we do not have the time or space for the GOD work or play? Because ... Diwaktu we feel that we can rightly take its own and without depending on it. Hopefully GOD forgive because I thought ... ... Nun that there is still time and place where GOD is not the most major in my life (nauzubillah) We should always remember that all akan DIA has provided to us. DIA has provided everything to us before we ask. GOD He is the source kewujudanku and Penyelamatku IA is a mengerakkan me and every second day. Without grounds that I was not useful. Susah vs. Glad How difficult is the truth? Why MASJID headed in but when we finished reading fresh again? How easy to remove the e-mail but we are proud religion card "forward" email that is not conventional? The most special gifts that we receive. Solat is the best .... No need to pay, but the sizable reward. Notes: No glue funny how easy it is for people NOT TO GOD Beriman Why wonder that after the world has become hell for them. Is not funny when someone says "I Beriman TO GOD" BUT always follow the devil. (who, by the way, also "believes" in GOD). Is not funny how you are able to send thousands of email buffoonery which eventually spread like a fire that is not restrained., But when you send an email about ISLAM, often people think 10 times to to share? Not surprising how when you start to send you this message will not send to all your friends because of what they think of you or your not sure whether they like it or not?. Not surprising you feel worried how will people respond to me more of your responses to GOD. I pray for all who send this message to all their colleagues in rahmati GOD. Wassalam. Always be grateful for what you can today. Because God created all that is on this day so beautiful for we can enjoy and syukuri. Amiennn By: arief taken from hafidzin `s mail

24 July 2009

Curhatan One night in october 2008


Assalamualaikum Wr.Wb.

Dear God .... O my God ... subhanalloh this beautiful night banget ... although a little cold, but surely this is the greatness of thy God O Thou Pair with a cold night so the atmosphere that creates harmony kan ku always longing ... O my God ... subhanalloh this beautiful night banget karna You have been present for months meneranginya apalagi Kau friend also gave light for weeks, months so not own the sky above ... yah You also create the stars with the light so that I and other people admire ... O Allah, indeed You're very understanding to me, You know I love the sound of water and gemericik You create quiet in the night ... so I can hear the sound of water gemericik that can calm my heart ... O God thank you because You are very menyayangiku ... mencintaiku ... so I have a thirst unbearable to you ... O Allah, I beg your pardon because I do ... ... often neglect and forget the top You give to me, I beg your pardon because I like to forget to be grateful to you, even sometimes I also like the angry and not sincere on the conditions that give You that does not comply with kemauanku, when it's the best for you, but I am sure you will forgive me because I know You menyayangiku ... I thank God above everything on the love and affection from the top of thy grace that You give all to me, for mercy and grace that You always share with me so that I can not count them, even using tercanggih anything in this world, I do not enjoy,,, Oops ... I almost forgot aja ya thank God above You're always sorry to give it to me ...
MAKE IS SOLUTIONS



Ass. War. Wab

You shall not come to righteousness (perfect), before you part menafkahkan property that you love. And whatever ye spend that Allah knew. QS 3: 92 Heartbreak guru ngaji so in view of the mosque near his house is 4 years and this development is also not yet finished that night ..... apparently he kegundahan heart tumpahkan to tercintanya wife bue ..... ..... Here is the mosque 4 years is no finished - finished ..... I hear from the superintendent that Jamaah ta'mir and development funds out ...... What if we are a motorcycle - only this time we give to the committee of the mosque for sale and money to continue the development of the mosque is ....... She only hears what is silent just delivered her husband ...... he is right know who her husband was really ...... that is one - the only vehicles that are usually dipunyainya ...... he needs to use ngaji teach them in a house far from the road to ...... - jaln together with the two children are still small ....... so anything that will be made ...... her husband then he will follow behind with the mengiyakannya ....... sami'naa wa atho'naa ..... Morning that the head of the pack Hajj committee of the mosque so surprised and moved arrival guests pack ngaji teacher and his wife who submit motorcycle honda supra fit complete with a letter - suratnya ...... just how the behavior becomes infaq our mosque for the sake of this ...... look in the mirror with the eyes - the head of the glass panita development of the mosque menimpali ...... that simple - that charity is a teacher pack dibalas by Allah SWT with the reply of the Rejeki ganda ...... disahut directly with answers together teacher and his wife pack ...... ...... while Amiin to thank the chairman of the mosque panita joke ...... if that person - the person dikampung this pack such as a teacher ..... wah rapid completion of this mosque ...... lagian that construction stop because there were still many outstanding debts that have not been paid in the store building materials store ...... so it would not send the material again if there is no payment ..... .. Night pack ngaji this teacher can not sleep thinking about that last sentence pronounced pak haji before lunch ...... still many outstanding debts to store materials, building materials ....... then he wake his wife ....... he started talking to his wife the day after ....... before we submit our motorcycle to the mosque committee ....... I went to the bank to check the balance of savings sedianya akan we use to go to Hajj ... ... there are 6 million balance ...... debt because there are many mosques that ...... and that construction can begin ...... what if we take that money and we give all for the development of the mosque ........ wife just smiled, mengiyakannya without interrupt without asking ..... ....... ..... without the worry of what will be done by her husband ....... .. Teachers pack the same morning with his wife back home to pack Hajj mosque development committee chairman for the money ..... sujumlah 6 million ..... pak haji so vibrant and bertabur embarrassed himself with the word .... ...... Alhamdulillah ..... motornya bike pack behavior 9 million teachers ..... and still - still pack of Hajj is also taking some 10 million savings for the development of the mosque is insyaallah tomorrow ..... can we start again we mosque construction ....... Day-to-day filled with activities the next pack of teachers who teach mengaji which was to some place mengajarnya motorcycle use since that time then he do so with increased angkot ..... after prayer shubuh head teachers' pack that is so sick ..... so ask them to phone a few places where a normal pack of teachers teaching mengaji in the morning and afternoon .... pack that teachers sick ..... can not teach that day ..... right up to the 9 am ... ... headache pack this teacher be lost without the drug at all ..... back as sick ..... and I have a permit because it does not teach that day ...... teachers pack just rest at home while you clean - clean house ....... after maghrib prayer pack of teachers to come to this cafe front of the house ...... coincidence warungs quiet pak and teachers to order coffee stall owner's widowed mother is after the coffee ..... ..... mother made this small shop owners can ask teachers to pack to keep warungnya briefly because he needs that have direct iyakan with a nod in the pack by a teacher ...... Right at 6 pm it ...... a luxury car stopped right in front of the cafe is in the pak guard by teachers out ...... someone berbaju koko and trousers and white skull cap ..... walk to the stalls that there are only teachers pack ..... greets him directly in the pack by a teacher ...... then ask him ...... ground in front of the stalls that this broad land who ya pak ?...... oh ..... the land of pak haji fulan bin fulan home in the west of the house there, at most, in the village with this ...... thank ..... salam proceed with farewell people that continue to travel in the direction of the show does not pack a teacher ..... old mother and owner of a stall is to come and live in the capital during this ..... no buyers come ...... 10 days after the incident in the afternoon ...... 3 ...... mothers day stall owner was upset because warungnya stop in front of a luxury car out ...... someone who is very neat dandanannya .... . baju koko ..... white trousers and white skull cap and white ..... ..... ...... father said to him, this small shop where the owner Buk ya ?....... this is my small shop pak ...... ..... I do not ask fathers - fathers who keep this small shop ..... ..... mother is upset that the father is ..... lha wong me this have been widowed since 5 years ago ....... in the middle of talks between the IBI and the owner of a stall ....... teachers pack is running from teaching mengaji home ....... lhaa father is lo I mean ....... oh ... the pack of the teachers .... and then make it home to pack a teacher who is behind the stalls that ........ he explained that the 15 hectares of land in alhamdulillah front that is ready and when the transaction ...... he will remove him farewell ...... one small sheet of paper checks ...... 150 million in cash to teachers as a pack of expression receive love .... .. With tears buraian pack teacher and his wife is not able to receive as much money with menyodorkan check it back to the owner ...... can buy a pack of teachers to teach motor ....... Hajj can go both ... smth .. even with my mother pack ..... teachers can make in addition to the development of the mosque ..... diterimalah check it as gift from God ..... is the Most Rich, Most have ...... Determining ....... Most all things .... What God gave to mankind as a mercy, no one can menahannya; and are arrested by God then no one is able to remove it after that. He is the Mighty, the Wise. QS 35: 2 It's easy - that Allah SWT soften our hearts and hands in all the way to provide for the purposes of God ..... tegaknya Religion for God in the face of this earth .... What the believers, if you help (of) Allah, He will help strengthen and kedudukanmu. QS 47: 7 Was. War. Wab
"Bang, I want to be your wife,"

pintaku slow.But man, where Cintaku berth this year, I did not hear. He terjerat day-to-day busy. Go early, and returned after nightfall when. Not infrequently early days the new house, heard the door creaking. I know, because almost every night I am waiting. Loyalty, which bear a bag under the eyes disappear. "Why do your eyes, Nia? The day is not the only shining. Do not unduly begadang often. " Mama, as well as the other, never understand alasanku guard every night. No one is to understand what kutunggu. Unless Bandi, where Cintaku lean. He never even offensive problems that the more deep-set eyes. Perhaps because men like him understand the weary toil of the love. Faithfulness of the physical vision. Unlike the other pair-pair, in most people thought, we are different. Bandi menafkahi busy families, making the men must work extra hard. Nevertheless, our regular meeting. Although only briefly once. Outside of work time as a journalist, the man himself menyempatkan short story writing, poetry, reviews, opinions, anything, for many media. Computer, do not have it. That's why Bandi diligent berlama-old in the office. And as the couple who is faithful, I must understand. Sosoknya a hard worker, who is increasingly attracted membuatku. The more in love. Other? "Abang can type in the house. Abang want at any time. Regardless hesitate. " Sunday afternoon, the brackets with the new clothes sewn Mama finished for the night, we talk briefly on the terrace house. Tawaranku but that is not entirely sincere, just because you want to with him more often, ditolaknya fine. "Do not, Nia. Brother's home office is the night. Uncomfortable with your parents. " Sentence specifically indicates independence, and not the mental ruler mumpung. Not without reason I menawarinya type, considering we have more than six computers at home. Paviliun house is long since I made the cafe and computer rental. Although originally orangtuaku not agree because we do not think lack of money, yet the rental kukelola and running the better. Cash flow, customer satisfied. On the other hand, I never get tired waiting Bandi home. Does not matter if he went home early, as occasionally happens, or even in the morning. Sosoknya a sound with a black backpack in the back, never terlewat from the eyes. ***** "I want to be your wife, Bang." Bisikku again. Second year had passed, and the time of the heart cause to fall on hard figures called Bandi. Man-built, brown skin with a good heart and attention. "Morning-morning like this is open?" I nod. Hide the thundering heartbeat, breath and ran tersengal because of the room, only to pursue bayangnya. "Bang Bandi also sepagi this road already? Usually seven days a quarter, right? " Man is laughing. Teeth of small neat rows. Giving the membuatku love, again and again. Membuatku feeling that never feels like enough to take the course. Yesterday learn cooking, and make cakes, and sewing, ahh what else? Let, which is important I can make Bandi. Front men in worship is still smiling. New kusadari then something membuatku embarrassed. Searched what I said? Seven quarter? Ah, the observation that sedetil that, shame! pikirku late. Bandi close perasaanku but that is not known with a wide smile, and a book in his hand. "You, Nia. Not to get too long. Excellent on its content .... " And men before running in a hurry, for as soon as he is sure that the chase time. With enthusiasm, his hands sway, given cursory descriptions of the content disodorkannya. Face of the spirit. I menatapnya, with the feeling of fall. Impressed with the sosoknya intelligent, and feel lucky because I am given the opportunity mencintainya. Day-to-day our simple but beautiful. He membawakanku many books, which kubalas with setoples pastry buatanku own. So beautiful up to three years away. Then terlewat fourth year. During that, I never get tired out and express how I want to become his wife. Bandi never said keinginanku. I calm myself with a variety of positive thoughts. Perhaps rushing, it may not yet feel ready, ucapku entertaining heart, each time feeling doubt arise. But patience will hold may be only mine. For Mama and the like have no other work, except memburuku with that sentence. "Menikahlah, Nia. Moreover, that you wait? " Bandi! There is no other. And the other can not! The following year, Papa mendesakku participate. "Son Om Hasnan good, Nia. His life was well established. He termuda director, the company Hasnan Om. " I am not the least interested. A rich man because of their parents property stream, which can win my heart? pikiranku involved in Bandi. Sosoknya, hard work, sweat the sweat patch is still clearly visible in dahinya, across every window kamarku. Om Hasnan children may be good, but he does not like Bandi. And the other candidates disodorkan. But each time, the trained shake my head and pulled thing bears desperate breath of Papa. Mama mendekatiku similar way. Offer prospective candidates for the dirasanya worth, and dignity of the parents. But always only kutemukan minus the value on them. Gilang, never serious. Herry adventurir too, make a Nia devotee of the house. Meanwhile, Agus too mathematical. Cuma Bandi;, intelligent and have the attitude merakyat, grab all that value plus, even in kesederhanaannya. Cuma Bandi, who did not hesitate membuatku humble self with many times the harapanku. Never bored expressions imply that, "I want to be your wife," But as bygones, kalimatku only brought wind, and evaporate without the former. Bandi, such as not providing a place for a wedding. ***** "Love," One day I heard that sentence from the lips. Clearly, without a doubt. "Love should be mutual understanding, with just a stare. Nia is not so? Love, should never need to make two lovers have to beg each other. Love .... " He sigh. Nanar views. I can feel the grief his heart that day. Cintaku but not say anything more. He went after the first menyodorkan a book membuatku weeping many days. Indeed, there has never been a love story kubaca and menorehkan so much grief, after Romeo and Juliet. "Good one, Bang. Nia dibuatnya to cry. " Bandi only slight smile. A strong hand to receive the books kukembalikan. God, I so want to lean in rengkuhannya. But the hands that are always polite, never menjamahku. "Love is respect, Nia. Love do not take advantage of each other. " I nod. As usual by terbius words Bandi. Akuratnya dazzled by the words and behavior of men. Bandi not touched, is not no love. Precisely because he was in love. Not like he said, love is not brassy? Love respect? "Bang, I want to be your wife," began to mingle bisikanku sob. Ahh, how inginnya. Bandi why I can not understand? The two people who mutually menyinta should understand each other, only with the look? And repeatedly, the excitement came sad. "Kak Nia, Ita pardon." I nod. Though afterwards I need to spend a day-to shed in the silent cry in bantalku. Riza ago, Nina, and the last .... "Kak, Linda apologize." Turn sister bungsuku request. I nod. Withhold the tears overwhelm menggayut eyes. I should be happy, brother-adikku complete their love story earlier. Marriage brother bungsuku celebrated large-scale by both our parents. As if Mama and Papa have been tired, and decided not even need to save a little savings for their first-born child. But years passed as soon as the night arrived. I did not realize when Mama and Papa start stop memintaku married. Kutahu that no more names that they sodorkan me. Initially it was felt membuatku free, yes free ... wait Bandi. New and kusadari heart of hempas, strange by something that never changed. Bandi not changed the least. Still like it. Seven quarter hours to go, and go home when the night drowned. Sosoknya still the same, patient, strong and attention. I never changed. Menemaninya still faithfully. Neat dress up in the morning to remove it to the office. Night, awaiting the return man though only through sunblind kamarku. Bandi not know is that both eyes can only terlelap ensure sosoknya after entering the house of the mighty? But the lack of progress in our relationship does not stop membuatku request. As well as that night. "Bang, I want to be your wife," I said with a slow drip of water. Bandi But although still friendly and good-hearted, as the already-have also not respond. In fact kesabaranku, and devote kesetiaanku .... And the pastry recipe that always changes each week? "Making this cake especially sepagi, Nia?" I do not answer the question Mama. Already at seven through ten. Five more minutes Bandi akan through, and I can not too late. Feet rushing to the door front. In my hand, setoples chocolate cake bertabur raisins, looks sweet and seduce. Be grateful, in simplicity. In the absence. Grateful with what we have. Bandi often repeat the re-sentence them. May mean that I may never again repeated the sentence, the keinginanku to become his wife. I nod. Bandi wave on the morning of travel with many bags in hand. Next is the days that are not kumengerti. For Bandi never appeared again. He disappeared quickly and when kusadari that night until dawn azan resonates, I do not see the beloved person to enter the house. Feelings of panic and immediately engulf myself. O Allah, something should befall the men terkasih. But, except me, it seems that no other people who feel lost. Not even my father and mother, and sister adiknya a six-man. I started crying. For a few days do not even have a mouthful of rice can also kutelan. When sepekan through Bandi and not also back, I drown myself in the room. Lock it and not let anyone touch kesedihanku. Bandi, something definitely going on to him! batinku may not dibohongi. Family Bandi surely entertaining only when the man is getting big salaries with pekerjaaan abroad. Bandi may not not preach to me that sepenting information. Am I not love, as he Cintaku? Every day, kuhabiskan time in the room with the prison, while the eyes continue to be glued, peek from behind the curtain, look Bandi shadow that can come at any time, in the circumstances may be injured. Oh God! Both eyes feel tired because of too much crying and awake. I no longer remember eating, bathing, even not at all concerned with the rental of the kurintis. Bandi is more important than all that! Mama and Papa and brother-adikku certainly looks sad. But they do not understand at all what kurasa. Wave of pain, feeling empty, as if almost all nyawaku tercerabut, membuatku not have the desire to do anything. Syukurnya, through three-month period in the sorrow, hope setitik appear. Bandi not do anything. Perasaanku says he is still alive, and could return at any time. Maybe soon. Then my body dirasuki new energy. Kuputuskan out the day room. The sun during this kumusuhi, eyes squint just right. But excitement explode-ledak, overcome all reluctance. Quickly, such as do not want to lose time, I take the clothes of the most well kupunya, and ran to the bathroom. Wipe hard body with a hard-spon soap, to clean and fragrant aroma filled soap. After the shirt, kusemprotkan perfume, and be as beautiful as possible. Those who do not understand the bedakku too thick. I just pout. They do not understand that her special kunanti. Bandi but that day has not come home. Never mind. Important is that I am always ready, if he occasionally came. Bajuku must be neat, my body should be perfumed, rambutku must always dikeramas each day. Powder, a little lipstick kucoretkan dibibirku the last often broken in pieces. I do not want to have a terlewat. All must be perfect, when Bandi return later. Man is already gone a long time, he surely nostalgic to me. We laugh at the joke, in the simple but beautiful relationship that is involved. He is also certain nostalgic with cake-kueku. Lord, how long have I no longer make pastry and put in toples, to Bandi? But since that day, has kutekadkan, so that no day passed without pastry new kubikin. The moment the new year arrived, and may Bandi akan pulang? When the new year, and I menunggui Bandi fence in front of our house to the cold, Mama wrap the body with a blanket shivering. But I am still waiting. Bandi akan may return when the holiday season. Perhaps fasting month next year. Hmm, do not! I smiled. Bandi akan lebaran return next year, definitely! Pikiran langkahku to bring it in space. Not a room to hope as the second person tuaku. Pikiranku solid work by many menungguku akan Bandi home until later. Make pastry prefer the beloved man. Also new shirt. My hands busy while you beat the dough wheat flour mixed with sugar, cheese, and somehow all the more, pikiranku roam. Commemorating Bandi. How rindunya. Tomorrow and next day again, the same rush menungguku. Pastry and sewing clothes. Every day. I want to go home when Bandi. I want to tidy, to beautiful. Least there is no doubt akan Bandi with loyalty. Although there have been married newspaper Bandi, Bandi or already be overseas and do not want to go back, I never believed. One day Bandi akan home and meet permintaanku to become his wife. As always during this kubisikkan in my heart towards the bed. "Bang, I want to be your wife." And I know, Bandi fully understand perasaanku. Permintaanku. For the love should be mutual understanding, with just looked. (Not so Nia?) Love, should never need to make two lovers beg each other. ... Love.

21 July 2009

Sleep of the Prophet Muhammad Saw

If people do not get to sleep favors may be human beings who will be the most evil and suffering in the world, "is that? One of the rights that must be met by the body and eyes are sleeping. Sleep is one of the favors of Allah that there is no measurable value. There is a delicious sleep that be Allah has given many things to people. Somehow happens if Allah does not bestow favors people with sleep, and may be human beings who will be the most poorly and suffering in the world. Try to imagine how, if only we did not sleep for a month only. Brain we have and continue to revolve terpikirkan various problems, without a break. The heart did not stop to feel the heat, angry, sad, disappointed, they all continue to accumulate without a pause. We may face will appear pale, disheveled, and sunken eyes, sunken cheeks, body emaciated, weak and without passion, or even like so disagreeable. In terms of physical or psychiatric, not including the picture of human suffering and the very poor? Therefore, the bed is a grace that is always in syukuri should by all human beings on earth. But that is a problem, how should people give favors to sleep? One way to give favors to sleep in a way that is menunaikannya with good and correct. Working on all aspects related to sleep with a good grace, from the start when trying to sleep up to wake up after sleeping. And for all that, the leader of all Muslims in the world, Prophet Muhammad saw has provided much information about how Muslims should treat sleep favors that Allah has been awarded to him. Prophet Muhammad saw always treat sleep with good ethics. Prophet Muhammad saw never sleep, keduali with the ethics of good sleep. "Indeed, there have been at the (self) He is a good example for good (is) for those who pray (mercy) and God (arrival) Day of Resurrection, and he mentions God a lot." (QS. Al Ahzab: 21) As a paragon of good, Prophet Muhammad saw was a lot to give examples of how setting a good sleep. Here are some ethics that sleeping with the teachings of Islam according to which there is in the hadith-hadith Prophet Muhammad saw: 1. Akan Berwudhu when sleeping "If you want to pembaringan (sleep), then let berwudhu first to do wudhumu as prayer." (Al-Bukhari HR. No. No Muslim and 247. 2710) From al-Barra `bin Azib, Prophet Muhammad saw once said," If you want to sleep, then berwudhulah (perfectly) berwudhu like you to pray, and then berbaringlah on the right side of your body. " 2. Reading prayer akan tidur Prophet Muhammad said if want to sleep on, "Bismika cor Amut wa Ahyaa" (With the name of thy God I am so dead and alive) When you wake up to bed to pray, "Alhamdulillahillaji ahyana ba'da Maa tanaa ama wa ilayhinnusur." (Praise be to God that have turned us after we die, and to Him we return. "(HR. Muslim) Al-Bara 'bin' Azib ra. said: "Prophet Muhammad saw when lying in bed, he put the hand under the right of the right-colored, while praying: Robbi qinii 'adzaabaka yawma tab'atsu' ibaadaka (Yes Robbi, guard me from Your punishment on the day You raised all thy servant). "(HR. At Tarmidzi) Hudzaifah ra. said: "When the Prophet Muhammad saw lying in bed, he prayed: Alloohumma bismika amuutu wa ahyaa (O Allah, Asma with thy mat, and I know I live). And if you wake up from sleep, he prayed: Alhamdu lillaahil-lladzii ahyaanaa ba'da Maa amaatanaa wa ilayhin-nusyuur (Praise be to God, who have turned me off the back after me, and to place him back). "(At HR. Tarmidzi) From Al Barra 'bin Azib ra said, "When the Messenger of Allah is on the bed and he slept akan sloping to the right, then read:" Christ aslamtu nafsii ilaika wawajjahtu wajhi ilaika wafawwadhtu amrii ilaika wa alja'tu zhahrii ilaika raghbatan warahbatan ilaika laa malja-a-walaa fed a minka illaa ilaika. Aamantu bikitaabikalladzii anzalta wanabiyyikal ladzii arsalta (O Allah, I submit myself to You, set to thy face, to submit all thy task, and the rest to thy punggungku with hope and fear thy, no shelter and save themselves from punishment but only to the Mu-Mu. I believe the book which Thou sent down from the prophet who sent thee. "(Bukhari HR.) 3. Sloping to the right Should have been sleeping in berwudhu, as hadith Prophet Muhammad saw which means: "Berbaringlah on the right flank." (Al-Bukhari HR. no. 247 and Muslim no. 2710) From al-Barra `bin Azib, Prophet Muhammad saw once said," If you want to sleep, then berwudhulah (perfectly) berwudhu like you to pray, and then berbaringlah on the right side of your body. " 4. Placing hands under the right cheek "Prophet Muhammad saw, when put to sleep right hand under the right cheek." (Abu David HR. no. 5045, At Tirmidzi No. 3395, Ibn Majah no. 3877 and Ibn Hibban No. 2350) 5. Read the letter of Al-Ikhlash, Al-Falaq, and An-hoodoo Aisyah ra. said: "When the Prophet Muhammad saw lying in bed, he collected both the hands, then blow on them and read them a letter Al-Ikhlash, Al-Falaq, and An-unlucky. Then disapunya entire body that can disapunya with both hands. He started from his head, face and the front of the body. He did this three times. "(HR. At Tarmidzi) 6. Tidurlah early in the night "He saw sleeping in the early evening and the end of the night." (Mutafaq 'Alaih) "Prophet Muhammad saw that hates to sleep the night before (Isya prayer) and talked (not useful) after it." (Historical Hadist Al-Bukhari no. No Muslim and 568. 647 (235)) 7. Do not sleep with telungkup position (prone) Lo (prone sleep position) is the sleep position that God's wrath, Azza Wa Jalla. "(Abu HR. David sanad with the shohih) 8. Pray when awake sleep Prophet Muhammad said if want to sleep on, "Bismika cor Amut wa Ahyaa" (With the name of thy God I am so dead and alive) When you wake up to bed to pray, "Alhamdulillahillaji ahyana ba'da Maa tanaa ama wa ilayhinnusur." (Praise be to God that have turned us after we die, and to Him we return. "(HR. Muslim) 9. The former bed "Then Prophet Muhammad saw arise from sleep and sat down while the face with his hands." (No HR. Muslim. 763 (182) 10. Beristinsyaq, beristintsaar when awake and asleep bersiwak "If one of you wake up from sleep, then beristintsaarlah three times as sesunggguhnya devil lodged in nose cavity." (Bukhari No. HR.. 3295 and Muslim no. 238) Beristintsaar is Beristinsyaq and then breathe out again or give off water from the nose. "When the Prophet Muhammad saw to clean up the night with a mouth bersiwak." (Al Bukhari HR. No. No Muslim and 245. 255) Thus the Prophet Muhammad saw the rights of sleep that Allah swt has given him. And as Muslims who believe in Allah and the Prophet Muhammad saw, then Muslims should have the grace to sleep as examplizeing and that has been taught by Prophet Muhammad saw. Wallahua'lam
Court? I, Ah!



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.. Hmm Headlines from aja udah nih certainly be exciting, especially with what I love-love ngomongin not there is potential for a utmost discussed. The era of old-fashioned now that love is always exciting to diobrolin. View deh events tivi in most of the romance. I missed the teenage magazines, tabloids, books, sinetron, film to the big screen reality show romance all its contents. What is still less children songs the band is now not far from the lyrics-love lyrics. So, the value of a potential sale of love come down (jiaaah, I sold you?). Including this paper will also discuss the same theme. Eyes and looked, but the point of Islam, because I am a Muslim. En Bro Sis, love the gift. Dateng gitu aja, suddenly appear without any invitee (dah kayak jalangkung!). No matter old or young, ugly or beautiful, or handsome-looking (loh? Foul nih cow) love does not know the difference deh. Example of what I like to do the same cewe, can forget everything, from the vacant, laughing own (love you so mad?) The ngelakuin are willing for the sake ceweknya. But can dimanfaatin aja, mumpung aji aja dibayarin way to go, from food to go. This cewek matre or just eat numpang (ngirit banget lo!). Or he may have the principle "might seefesien". I have that I do? Pletak! Wadooh, which is not in empathy ceweknya tuh, si cowok aja times I desperately nabung one month, the debt is also left-right time ya? (nah loh tuh have a kesendir ya? Hehe ...) But what of the girl allegedly numpang matre or eat only, like the girl-girl I'm not agree. But, quietly Sis. Do all the women's kayak gitu kok (Jiaaah, defense is just an example I fear dicakar-paw same-sex sex, peace). Eh, who have protested the court I'm not associated with Islam? I usually protest that mikirnya gini: "The important ibadahnya kan? Ngapain disangkut flower-pautkan with Islam. During the court aja nggak bother other people and not the adultery. " Hmm ... Bro, Islam is a clear ngasih rules, we should be able to accept Islam fully, not merely a ritualnya aja aja or as a formality. Aturannya concerning all things, from the rule until the state rules for individuals. Do not up there among you who diligently ngaji, prayer is also a lag, but maksiat tetep road. Hadduch .. STMJ tuh mah (prayer on Maksiat Road). Prayer is prayer, but a matter of maming aka Night Weekly ngerasa you are obliged to attend to the home you love. Intention ngapel farewell same ortu while the boyfriend, like ngajak streets looking for fresh air (search aja oxygen in the hospital, and ends more times tuh!). The idea that both can aja. Oya, have also tuh temen our beralibi alais ngasih reason that girls do they do it Islamic. They agreed to drop out while I come Ramadahn months. Later abis Ramadan through again (waduuuh, ngarep banget ya buat melegalkan court?). Kalo gitu ngerampok the Islamic times, there were so, only the rich who ngerampok stingy en corrupt officials (dah kayak Robin Hood do? Origin deh lo!). Gauls how Islam Bro Sis en, Allah SWT. I said (which means): "Do not approach adultery that adultery is an act of indecency and a bad way." (QS Al-Isra [17]: 32) Tuh, not only zinanya aja the unlawful, but it is close to adultery is prohibited. Identical with the court to gather the type of opponent. Berkhalwat with the term that is not mahrammnya, of course forbidden in Islam because it can menjerumus to en kemaksiatan in a more severe adultery. I want plesetin omongannya Bang Napi first time (still on inget kan?). Yup, Bang Samsi (eh, Bang Napi) says: "Inget, kemaksiatan not only because the perpetrators have intention, but also because there is opportunity." Bener banget. Kalo udah berudua-be a pair of three is the devil. Be careful what Satpol the PP also watching. Events you diintip potential and didiemin first ketangkep get wet (nah loh experience sapa tuch?) What, what is chaste terpancing same demons, the easy tuh ngegodainya, the term stay waiting hours to run (dah kayak nonton aja tuh cinema). Bro, before the two-be a pair with the opposite type, in the early-early relationship with the opposite type is set correctly in lho Islam. Maksiat incident so that it can be prevented because peluangnya diminimalisir. Allah SWT. I said (which means): "Say to the believers men: 'Let them conquer some eyes and keep kemaluannya ....' And say to the believers of women: 'Let them conquer some eyes and keep kemaluannya .... ' "(an-Nuur QS [24]: 30-31) So, down is to maintain the view. Gitu aja nggak removed without the control that allows the candidate to feel pleasure birahinya to the top of the opposite type of act. This view can be maintained if spelled accidentally see the type of opponent and then keep trying to view does not see a repeat again or keep track of beauty or kegantengannya. Ath-Thabarani hand down, he said. He said that means, "Awaslah you from bersendirian with women, in God's hand in the soul, not a man who bersendirian (bersembunyian) with a woman by the devil entered malainkan between the two. And, a berdesakkan with a pig mud berlumuran the casserole is better than brush shoulders with the shoulders of a woman who is not lawful for him. " Hadith also in the other. From Abu Hurairah r.a. that the Messenger of Allah. has said that means, "The eye is able to adultery, the hands of that (can) make adultery, the second leg (can) make adultery. And all of it or been akan justified by genitals. "(Hadith Sahih diriwayatkan by Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim from Ibn Abbas and Abu Hurairah). The lowest heart is adultery with favor because bernikmat-kick close to her, adultery with the eyes and feel the silky memandangnya more bodies fall to the adultery, mutual touch, hold, embrace, smooch, and so on until there cunt. Ati-ati! Waspadalah! Bor en Sis, in Islam there is a court term, essentially because the association rules in Islam is infishol alias "separate" in the sense like: do or do only interact with familiar or like the mahram. Associated with the opposite type of problem only mu'amalah (business, such as in the market between sellers and buyers), education (such as between a teacher with students or faculty as students) is also a problem in health care (medical consultation with patients and the like). All of which must remain sayr'i. Matter of special places and public places Allah SWT. said (which means): "O those who believe, do not enter the house before the house, not ask permission and salute to the penghuninya. That is better for you, that ye may (always) remember. If you do not find one there, So do not you enter before you get permission. and if you said: "Back (alone) is, then let you back. for the clean and Allah is Aware of what ye do. (An-Nuur QS [24]: 27-28) En Bro Sis, I know you need a place or condition associated with, the association between the guy and girl who are not mahram. First, the place that we do not need a permit at the time of entry / view (eg, field hospitals, markets, etc.). Second, the special place (a place that if we want to go see it or are required to ask permission, for example: bath houses, private cars, private rooms and the like). I hold, which must be observed in the association is a matter of the term: First, ij'tima, ie, come together, but no interaction. Second, a'laqoh, namely interaction, but I gather (eg phone, online chat, SMS's, tell, send an e-mail and the like). Third, ikhtilat, which is gathered and beriteraksi (and allowed for a non-mahram is only in problems mu'amalat, education, and health) Oya, I would like little stories. I had tuh different opinion on the legal status of what the court itself. I do agree court, not because I'm not a court proceeding, but because many who do nolak hehe ... (I ding, emang udah I know I can make court ruling according to Islamic teachings). I also reject the court not to nyuruh he dropped out of the same girlfriend, just my thinking ngajak aja. On the klimaksnya he says to me: "What life style kayak so you can get without living in Indonesia aja!" Wadduh .... What I do nyangka ngomong so. until finally I answered "Sory friend, I live in the earth, Allah SWT. If you do not agree with the rules of Allah aja get away from the earth of Allah. " Halah, so my spontaneous comment. Terfikir it was my emotions that the time ye? But ya udahlah. So, I like to try even though I still firmly in learning to obey all the rules of Islam. Court not only those who are celibate and girls aja, but from the age of grown-up until grandfather grandma can do as a threatened punishment by God. However, the general court is invisible to the teenagers. Can a right? Islam ngatur relationship between the type of opponent Oya, do not mean that in Islam there is a solution for dealing with nonmahram. In Islam the relationship nonmahram this diakomodasi in the system through the institution of marriage khitbah / proposal and wedding. Messenger of Allah. He said (which means): "O youth group, who among you is able to marry, then let him marry, because marriage is more down, and more self-maintaining. But, who is not able to marry, then let him fast, because fasting can reduce the orgasm. "(HR Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Daud, Tirmizi, Nasai, Ibn Majah, Ahmad, and Darami) In addition to the above, both the friend relationship, the association of men without women's feelings, or professional relationship, or court, or the association of teachers and students, and even inter-neighborhood association that violates the above rule is illegitimate, even though Islam does not deny the existence of taste like or even love. En bro sis, even allowed to laki-laki/perempuan like that are not mahram, but we are forbidden to open relations with nonmahram without a adheres to the rules above. If it still does that, you have to accompanied brother or male mahram men you and you must close auart each to meet the rules of Islam which has been set. But this is not in the court order, lho. Yes, just enough to meet the education or propaganda, muamalah and health. Okay? Believe, that Allah Ta'ala mate who ngatur. I need all maksain the court. I have stories, a teacher's ngaji I do (ask ngutip ya pak .. hehe). So there is a girl-girl is remarkably court en cinta banget. When they are in theory, the court discussed tuh kayak gini. Short stories they drop out, "we dropped out of Islam for the sake aja yach ..." he said. Wah banget emang ya dilemma? (love deritanya no end .. hwaach basic Patkai). Emang nggak easy weight en tuh take decisions out of love is dead. The semboyannya aja: "I love you eureun-teu eureun" (gotong royong aja ya biar nggak times heavier). But then they receive iklhas decision. Continue until they mature. God permits them up dipertemukan back, because ortunya I also know each other, they eventually married. Wah wah ... of course they are happy. What Bro, want, want want? What is not ready to take a long time waiting for ngehindar from maksiat en slander continue to wedding (the sooner the better, we mah Syariat pro Islam!). BTW, but I'm not segampang I omongin ya? Bang Thufail said al-Ghifari is "a marriage is how beautiful the Jihad" (cit.. Cwiw!). So, what does not seriously complicated relationship, the objective emang married? (loh kok jadi ngomongin marriage? Curhatan me I like. Watau!) Proof of true love Bro Sis en, Allah's Messenger. been said (which means): "Proof of true love that there are three, namely: choose Kalam kekasihnya (al-Qu'an) Kalam other than (a product of man); interact with select kekasihNya than interact with others; keridhaan kekasihNya choose from keridhaan the other. " Such as the person who loves something, he was a servant. Yahya bin Mu'adz related to this says: "Setitik seeds of love to God the more I like the reward of seventy years of worship." Nah, kalo virus pink hot start in your heart, there is only one solution right: merit daughter marries alias marriage. Not what I was younger I also home mentalnya steady, strong in knowledge, and enough material. Ngerasa but I have not been able, so you have to wis-diligent diligently to fast flaming nafsumu muted. And of course while you continue to learn, sharpen skills, and identify more in Islam, do not forget the positive perbanyak: ngaji and sports, for example. Main gold thread? Halah, not the origin of so-so kebablasan! But, from the main gold thread get read al-Quran or kayak I Reviews I gaulislam in the bulletin. Allah is okay. Sip kan? Bro Sis en, living in a world that we prepared this brief to get the victory in the Hereafter soon. Therefore, yuk we begin to live with this serious and do not play. We try to pray and hope Allah SWT. that given the power to run all the commands and leave all laranganNya. Moga our success in the world and the Hereafter ya. How? How doooong! May God help us, amin. So, tetep girls want? I, Ah! [Samsi:



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Can not .... can not ..... the main thing as I need to get the first half of the inheritance my father and mother sepeninggal ...... I am the father of a student to pay all of you ...... so reasonable dong if I get 1 / 2 the inheritance my father and mother of one of ...... adiknya and little sister menimpali word sulungnya whose lives have been established with this in this case ...... I have already aturannya kak .... . we all know that ...... lagian sister has a nice life ...... except if there is magic or special grants from the father and mother to be with ...... pendapatkan sister daughter that is not less sengitnya ....... which is divided fairly flat course with a face ruddy ....... ..... brother and I bring to the spicy adiknya second sister ....... if not then you do not akan can graduate and undergraduate course such as this ....... now with the weak and resentful daughter's husband's younger brother joined talk kang mas ...... so ...... not willing to pay for college is not sincere sister -- kang mas brother own ...... so now they have requested compensation ...... you people ..... you do not participate - in the following issue sautnya this fierce ...... This is the picture of a real situation that often happens ...... when both parents died ...... we have children - children struggle WARISAN ..... ..... not even a few of them going .. .... and ..... more complicated when the father's brother men - men pak de ..... ...... uncle or participate in the request also ...... silaturrahim relationship that was good - well just because ...... ...... heritage issues into the enemy's brother .... not even a few of them to bring this issue to the court ...... In the Qur'an and Sunnah ..... As already explained in understandable ..... but this problem has never been ana can finish this problem when the requested assistance brotherly neighboring wa akhwat ...... ..... . because almost all the parties involved and the thoughts of his heart is in the property by butakan ....... get the most ...... they forget their guidance Syariat ...... Langgar law - the law is noble ...... so Syariat "heir faraidh "..... this is rarely implemented properly ...... even if there are parents who have died and had written testament grant the child - another son atu because this is also commanded by the Prophet SAW when the aged renta write testament to the children - son ..... the very day dihiraukannya not at all ...... ....... Na'udzubillah Your wealth and your children is just a test (for you), and in the sight of Allah is a great reward. QS 64: 15 Property and children is a test from Allah SWT and Allah ...... the paragraph with this lafadh "amwal "...... ...... new wealth and children as human test ....... of course that the exam is passed and which have not passed the test ..... so that when the first humans in the form of property does not pass ..... property is not used for the purposes of fighting in Allah's way .... then the impact of further examination in of children is very difficult through ...... we can picture it already looks a lot ...... even though the person is born berkelimpahan property ...... dipunyainya property that is not used to fight in the way of Allah .. .... then the child will become of their spine in the family ...... They ask about what they spend. Answer: "Whatever you spend that wealth should be given to the mother-father, kinsfolk, orphans, poor people and those who are in transit." And what is good for you, then know that Allah Almighty. QS 2: 215 Rasulullah SAW also memeriintahkan that heirs do not leave us in poor condition ..... HR. Bukhari of the Muslim Abu Isaac bin Abi Waqqash ra, he said that the Messenger of Allah SAW menjengukku when I am sick at the Farewell Pilgrimage 'while I said, O Messenger of Allah sakitku very severe, as you see. I have the property while the pewarisku only become a putriku only. Can I menyedekahkan 2 / 3 hartaku? He said: No ... I said, half hartaku Ya Rasulullah ?.... He said: No ... I said, a third hartaku O Messenger of Allah ... He said: A third ..... A third is already a lot of Truly great .... or if you leave warismu experts in the rich better than you left them in poor condition and ask mercy of others ..... Very rare among the brotherly akhwat and a new heir to receive the property from both parents ..... and wealth into benefits for their lives ..... so many people say that the heir property is "hot "...... even very rarely found in children who continue the business their parents inherited the company ..... ...... parents and the company to develop advanced ...... that often happens is the decrease insyaallah ...... .... and finally disappeared from circulation .... Meanwhile, in addition to guidance "faraidh "..... Rasulullah SAW also expand the management of wealth in the form of infaq .... .... sodaqoh and waqaf ...... If we want to think wisely for the good of all especially children - children ...... then the obligations of our parents are standing behind each - to support their children realize that the option of living children are in gariskan by Allah SWT ...... with all the effort and make their ikhtiarnya - their children succeed in the world ...... because life is often the option of living the way the world is different from what children in the geluti ...... by her parents when their - their children have been successful enough in the eyes ..... the world ... .. and then the parents still have a wealth of titipan Allah SWT ..... so that parents can take this as guidance Syariat the other ...... that is by taking infaq Syariat sodaqoh ..... .... . ...... waqaf or because children see - her son has established itself in the field - even if their own ...... have children who choose the field as their parents ..... then at least a valuable lesson for children is .... they should start a business together with her parents from the beginning from zero ..... ..... ..... as the founder not as a successor ..... so the child knows how difficult it is. ..... Lika - devious way that also experienced by parents ...... and this is a very valuable experience for him ...... Insyaallah akan bring is what we become slaves who passed the exam as well as property pass the test in children ..... there is no dissension among brothers ..... ..... our heirs and will lead directly to parents as a slave the tranquility of his life ..... dilimpahii happiness of life ..... Amiin Allah SWT.




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In the heart of youth 24 years old that day berkecamuk one thousand kinds of hubbub feeling depressed .... .... .... happy .... fear into the mix .... one day it will be the youth faced with the mother's women in khitbahnya ..... for the first time he will meet with her alone ..... a respite after her husband left by God in the face to raise all children - children .... 4 hour journey in the all - time youth is to ask Allah SWT to give strength and simplicity .... .... with a hope not soon he will find his life support .... And when first the youth met with prospective mothers this law ... didamping his daughter that first ..... question which is very unexpected for the youth of her life who have shown persistence of outline face ..... pemudata very surprised to make it ...... What sampean already work ?....... bu sampun responsible youth is .... Works where the private companies ?..... more youth with the spirit and pride ..... What job ?..... With a brief that said the youth "salesman" At once the young people see the changes that mimic the face he's disappointed with the full mark and the first daughter while he menimpali want to give explanation to the bundanya lho ...... ..... per bu per ko ....( salesman in Madurese language )..... Youth is a new profession that tersadar salesman at the time .... in 1990 ... still considered a negative by some people ..... can not guarantee the future of the good ..... lineament so disappointed that he .... concerned about daughter's fate will be the candidate's wife is young. Return trip in the heart of youth is the confusion ..... akan concerns do not get a blessing from the mother of a woman who already dikhitbahnya ...... when he has to steady the ship home with fiancee ...... options that have been in istikharahinya ..... God's instructions and according to him either ....... Lapse of two months from the first visit silaturrahim ..... after my daughter that she completed sarjananya and then in the finals ..... ta'arruf youth from families with families of women who have chosen and performed ...... Alhamdulillah ..... proposal is accepted ...... When the procession finished ta'arruf ..... prospective mother-in-law returned the young man approached ....... ask a question of a dilemma to the young people while there is emphasis threatening ..... Here bud ..... a mother is struggling alone to send to prospective women graduates ...... and the field of education kesarjanaannya a mother .... then ask you to give equal opportunity to women candidates aqdun after marriage ..... later to become science educators that the campus from obtaining the benefits have ...... Youth that had upset her because in pikirannya ..... already met the concept of a life ..... housekeep referred from some of the book .... kalsik both contemporary and modern .... ..... that model household akan dijalaninya later .... is that my husband will be working all out ...... outside the home while his wife is not working as employees ...... any akan but can work at home business such as open shops, sewing, etc. while nurture and educate our children later. In confusion ...... youth feel there is a natural mind and show his heart so that he gave answers to questions prospective mother serasa law offshore without the burden in mengucapkannya ...... ... If the mother insyaallah later when God megijinkan and meridloi ..... then I'll make sekolahan for my wife so that she can teach and practice in knowledge ..... to get this while my wife at home alone .... Youth see the smile of peace and quiet of the capital prospective law after listening to the answers ..... even though the youth was only joke origin - derived ..... 12 years after they were married before ...... children - her son ..... both parents are young ..... ...... AND MOTHER law on 13 July 2002 together with the appropriate age of marriage to their 12 ...... ..... they all see the young mother law Institute of Education has launched an Islamic ..... After the event tasyakkur ..... the mother menantunya law about this ...... he utter a soft hug menantunya with weeping .... THANK YOU .... You son have proved what you Pronounce ........ ..... confused the son because he was sure to say what the law is the capital and in the evening ....... after the event that his wife tasyakkur not explain ...... ta'arruf when first ..... mas prior to the mother who promised to make me sekolahan ?...... Subhaanallah .... Apparently the word of youth without the burden of the offshore and abroad - has been derived by the record as a promise of God to a mother who had to be fulfilled ..... and maybe the mother with a smile ...... law since shade listening to the sentence .... considered to be the truth .. ...... ...... dipikirkannya encouraged prostration in prayer night ....... make it as a "highly respected and "..... Allah has ordered universe with tasbihnya. ..... for all the component leads to its establishment ..... ...... hope it becomes reality ...... Subhaanallah ... Until the end of 2008 ..... the very mother-in-law loves the children ..... menantunya still stand to live alone in the house ..... although favored daughter and son-terkasihnya already membujuknya .... merayunya to live together ..... Arrived - arrived he appeared in the final year of the child at home, daughter and grandchildren - his grandchildren ...... walk while menenteng bag .... the default be struck directly by menantunya face with regret why he .... must run ?..... why not just get picked up the phone ?...... he said with a smile ..... I want to see SEKOLAHANMU ...... menantunya then rushing out the car .... . and immediately deliver the capital to see the law ..... sekolahannya where the daughter was led sekolahan ....... He saw ..... ..... the scene which makes it quiet smile ...... he met in 1000 with a student - student .... play .... nursery - and a child .... primary schools who are learning to play ..... and greet him with salaam manisnya ...... all - time he tebar smile for teachers - teachers who are teaching guide and son - daughter didiknya hissing Alhamdulillah ..... all - time out of his mouth ...... stumma Alhamdulillah .... Towards the maghrib his chest felt a bit sick ..... daughter immediately took him to the doctor ..... what does not - what the doctor said ..... when adzan ISYA 'echo ...... he is still seen taking water wudlu lapse of some time ...... ..... tersayang daughter and grandchildren - his grandchildren ..... about the rooms he still ...... ...... terbalut mukena his body temperature is very hot ....... the son immediately took him to the hospital that day ...... and also he Menghadap ..... TO GOD IN THE HOUSE ....... Innalillaahi daughter TERKASIHNYA Wa Inna Ilaihi Rooji ' uun ..... SELAMAT JALAN Mother ...... go with his beautiful smile PUTRI AND FOR MENANTUNYA ....... But because of the grace of Allah you apply gentle with them. If ye be hard again be rough, they would dissociate themselves from sekelilingmu. Therefore ma'afkanlah them, pray for their forgiveness, and bermusyawaratlah in their dealings with it. Then when you have "complete determination", and put thy trust in Allah. Allah loves those who bertawakkal Him. QS 3: 159 Was. War. Wab
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Where my father would go out ?.... I shubuh already look tidy ?.... son ...... How do you deliver in the register of the university's father ...... no usahlah father took .. ... I have a large ..... why I dare to leave their own ..... I am ashamed that lagian meet friends - friends later ..... ...... fate of the father of her child who does not pass SD is then said to her son's father wanted to know ..... what Universities kayaking, and my father also Pingin know where you study it .... Finally, the child is not able to repress the desire to join his father on that day ..... Go them from a village that had never even have a degree in the village ...... And when it has been on campus .... while the children busy after the document pendaftarani ..... seen his father sit on the floor in one corner of the campus buildings while ..... Always Moving lips and gentle eyes Wet WITH AIR MATA ..... always on the lips move to berdzikir ..... to offer prayers to the Most Defining Dzat all things ..... and the tears that is the hope that the children spill ...... he delivered his son to God ..... not to the building -- building the campus and all its contents Subhanallah ...... ... The first day the child is studying in kejutkan by something that never terbayangkan by it ...... one lecturer said to him ..... where they ?...... quite embarrassed - embarrassed by it later on. .... from a very rural area ...... that ..... there is no electricity there is no telephone advice .... do not have transportation and that is ..... ..... Arrive -- arrived as a lecturer in mathematics is startled surprised to hear answers that new students who come from Mr. ..... another village not far from the desamu ... and the first time in elementary school have a friend from the desamu ...... we the same - same rabidity elementary school which is very far from where we live ..... ..... he is very intelligent fathers have not been able to defeat him ..... ingenuity, especially in subjects count ..... unfortunately he does not pass until the SD because they do not have to pay for the school children of poor people ..... .... fulan name fulan bin ....... The day the child startled disengat like electricity ...... the name of his father's body called by lecturers who are well known and in that respect on campus as a friend ...... ...... that have not been smart in the invincibility all subjects count .... ..... especially where teachers have a degree in doktornya it ...... the child is not his strong hold water that already meets sheath eyes ..... and then ask permission to run to the small room and spill ..... ....... tangisnya there in the heart berkecamuk depth of feeling ..... feel ..... how his father keeps so long desire to deliver this capability for a latent himself in time out .... and .... the desire is to himself diberikannya ..... ..... sulungnya children .... Since then the child ..... terlecut to correct - use the correct time only to learn learn ..... ..... ..... learn ..... and already thousands of square meters of rice sold ..... jewelry mother who often go out and mortgage ..... Allah SWT grant the prayer of the father have a child ..... ..... .... SARJANA SARJANA THE FIRST ADA in his village ... .. his father was still not smiling ..... so many different children with the excitement that rampage ..... still looks like kebiasaannya Always Moving lips ..... ..... .... BERDZIKIR Day bersejarahpun come ...... terlelap children still sleep in the house kos nya ...... arrived - arrived in the wake shubuh by guards kos that there ...... my father in front of the steps that still slow ...... ...... the child ran in front of the father have already ...... how many hours of my father until tanyanya here ?....... OF JAM 3 PAGI Earlier ... no father ... why would it go ?...... certainly pity you tired of all sesuatunya prepare for graduation this morning ........ ..... Yes God is good with what must terbalas?. ..... back the hearts of the children terkoyak ...... Until after graduation in the house ...... my father still does not smile much proud father ...... ...... still used as such a strong iceberg ..... save billions of bongkahan wishes and expectations to the children that are still hidden ...... the father and child sarjananya are menikamati fried banana and hot tea in the back of the house are spacious and beautiful scenery with rice ...... arrived - my father arrived with a serious look to the big tree on the back of the house ..... and then he said ..... .... nak the bird ?..... What is sparrow's son ...... yah briefly and then ask again ... .. nak ... What is a bird ?...... is sparrow yah !..... mereguk after tea warm again with the father asks the same question ...... ..... nak What is a bird ?..... What is the father of yesteryear ..... I have just said that the sparrow yah ..... SARJANA answers with a little peeved and father go ....... duduknya of the house and then walk ...... not long after to bring back the record books ..... the seedy father shows a page in the book to read children sarjananya ...... Written date ..... 20 years ago, children sulungku ...... ..... ..... harapanku are on the back of the house ..... sit down - sit down with .... while enjoying the fried banana and hot tea .. .... and the first small birds that are interested in dancing - nari large tree in the back of the house ..... and he RATUSAN TIMES ..... to me ..... ASK WHAT IS BIRD YAH ..... The children kneel directly in his father's lap while crying and ask pardon with a gentle father ..... say ..... KESABARANMU listen to OTHER PEOPLE ARE SO PEOPLE CAN makes you .... Day - next day at the university with lalui exert every power to get a job ..... and Alhamdulillah .... only one week after the lapse of graduation ..... children have a job ..... a multi-company national .... Procter & Gamble Indonesia Makro Indonesia ...... ...... ...... Warner Lambert Indonesia The Coca - Cola Company .... but to his son's position in the company are over. ... still like my father who used to smile a lot ..... not .... dimaknai the leaders of large American companies that ..... that his father has not been proud of her son ...... Kegundahan children who have heart 20 years working in several large United States companies is finally delivered a decision of the child ...... ..... stop working because of the desires to make his father when the father ..... hear that children will work out of the company that many people want it to remain cold father ..... .... ..... not many smiles as iceberg ..... Bachelor's former manager of several companies finally found this way of life which he thought would make his father proud and happy ..... he open the book again - the book as he was boarding at her ..... borong books - religious books so that all corners meet and that there is room in the house ...... and when he was requested by someone who comes from the village to fill in tausiah ...... an event in the hearts of adults .... former manager of the company .... which is still a child who has not been able to make his father proud and happy this certainty ..... nant father came in the event ...... That night ... .. children to see his father sitting in the front row seats from 500 who attended an invitation only ..... direct ..... dihampirinya ogbes with a kiss and hand ..... and when the event tausiah .... mauidhoh. ... arrived ..... the time this new ustadz a crouch while running to his father ..... si ustadz is then opened with a preamble so smoothly with the selected word - a word to a sentence in the cluster - the beautiful and full wisdom ..... with descriptions that can be easily understood ...... the child who then becomes ustadz this ....... see his father crying SESENGGUKAN .... AIR eyes damp face .... . tausiah view and listen to their children ..... In the return trip takes 1 hour ..... all - at the time of weeping children tumpahkan this with you and Puja puji thanks to God ..... Yes ... God has shown you the way .... which must be passed .... THAT MAKE Bahagia father and proud ..... iceberg melt was at this time .... And when meeting with friends who are very close friends with my father ..... ..... father said from the first father ...... since we are still young, and with - the same in the scout movement anshor ..... . .... father wanted his son was soon to become USTADZ ...... ...... A .... Subhanallah And (remember) when his Lord tried Abraham with a few sentences (commands and restrictions), and Ibrahim menunaikannya. He said: "I am menjadikanmu akan priests for all mankind." He said: "And (I also need) from the seed." He said: "Promise Me (this) is not about people who do wrong. QS 2: 124 Wass.War.Wab

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For the children we will do whatever ...... let us suffer so long as the children - our future children better lives than we ... so I often hear more from the parents ...... and this is indeed true .... ..... Thousands pound the streets of the nine obstacles .... Skip .... for me ... ..... son ..... my mother still While walking sole ...... ..... .... full of blood, pus ..... One evening the mother went home with the sole bleed ..... pebble stuck ..... perjalan after a long tiring since the morning ..... he just said ..... no APA - APA Kok .... CUMA Luka KECIL ..... Bermil - mile walk he knock door to door of the house is not in kenalnya to offer services to teach reading to write the Qur'an for the home .... because only that he can ..... Voters empty expression .... without the countless rejection ..... Sorry we do not need teachers mengaji .... BUT MOTHER Stay smile ..... Was said in the hearts ..... LELAHKAH DIA ?...... When the house is not the mother .... it is fast asleep sleeping child - a son terlelap one by one terbuai advice through the beautiful story he said ... Midnight .. he is still sitting in sajadahnya ..... bersimpuh crying while he mentions the name of children - children one by one .... so that God guide and gives instructions to the ...... children - her son so soon to become the person that always makes proud smile ..... After dawn ketulusannya the only woman capable dibalas by Allah SWT continue to work to set up a commodity rutinnya ...... ..... run ... enter and exit the village selling dagangannya ...... So When DIA TERLELAP ?...... Diagungkan woman whose name he is never angry or annoyed ...... Now berpuluh year after he did all of that ...... after millions of miles of roads after he susuri .... bertampuk - calyx prayer after he panjatkan .... selaut tears tangisnya before the child was God ...... KNOW ..... that ... His mother respited ..... like the air that you provide the love ..... I can not afford to pay .... Mother .... mother .... And We charged the human (good) for the two mother-father, his mother was in a state of weak mengandungnya the stepped-up, and menyapihnya in two years. Be grateful to me and to the mother of two fathers, only to return Kulah. QS 31: 14

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Proposal Nikah Gift BUAT YANG MAU AND BARAKALLAHU SIAP married ..!


Ibunda and Ayahanda that I respect, love and care about me, I hope God always memberkahi steps and we do not interrupted nikmatNya to give to us. Amin Ibunda and Ayahanda that I respect .. as a servant of God, I have been given various favors. It is true that Almighty God has said: "We will show signs of greatness in our horizon, horizons and in themselves, so they can see clearly that God sees the truth and everything." Favors the disposition of which is the biological needs, need each other to the opposite type of .. namely: Married! Character of God that has sticky on human life, and if people violate the disposition of God, the only downfall didapatkannya .. Na'udzubillah! And Allah has said: "Do not you approach adultery, because adultery is a bad act dirty again" (Qs. Al-Israa ': 32). Ibunda and see .. Ayahanda beloved of the young adult crowd that's very very apprehensive, as if they do without conscious deeds maksiat to God. Seems, of the people who have only thought-thought that leads to happiness and the right cast. Not to mention if asked to them about marriage. "I'm not marrying was mikirin, busy work, I still ngumpulin Moreover goods first," or the Work has not been established, not quite ready to settle down?, So they said, the less what they do. Hopefully I can be patient in order to survive and do not maksiat. Allah knows best. Ibunda and Ayahanda tersayang .. tells about the association of young people who tend to be free in general, it's not enough ink to me torehkan. I write each of the events in young children? Islamic magazine, at the same time the events occurred which demanded our attention Astaghfirullah .. .. Ibunda and Ayahanda .. this is such a melatar belakangi urge to want to marry me. Basic idea From Al Qur? And an Al-Hadith: "And nikahkanlah those of you alone, and those eligible (married) from the slave sahayamu the men and the servants who sahayamu women. POOR PEOPLE IF GOD WILL MENGKAYAKAN WITH THEM KARUNIANYA. Allah is the width ( pemberianNya) and Aware. " (QS. An Nuur (24): 32). "And we made all things in pairs, so that you remember the greatness of God." (QS. Adz Dzariyaat (51): 49). ? Blessed is He who created all pair-pair, both from what ditumbuhkan by the earth and of themselves and what they do not know? (Qs. Ya Sin (36): 36). God created you for the pair-pair (wives) of the type you own, then from the wives of you that He created for you the offspring of offspring, and to give him the sustenance of the good (Qs. An Nahl (16) : 72). And among his signs is that He created for you wives from jenismu own, so that you tend to feel settled and to him, and dijadikanNya diantaramu love and pity. Surely, in that there are indeed signs for people who think. (Qs. Ar. Ruum (30): 21). And those who believe, men and women, some of them (are) to be protective (helper) for the other part. They were told (a) that ma'ruf, prevent from the munkar, establish prayer, pay the obligatory charity, and they obey Allah and Rasulnya. They will be given the grace by God, for God is Mighty, Wise (Qs. At Taubah (9): 71). O people, bertaqwalah ye to your Lord that you have made one myself, and he made jodohnya thereof, and He kembangbiakkan be men and women who are many. (Qs. An Nisaa (4): 1). Women who are good for both men. Men of good for women who are both (as well as vice versa). For their forgiveness and reski the overflow (ie: Paradise) (Qs. An Nuur (24): 26). .. So nikahilah women (others) that you senangi two, three, or four. Then if you fear will not be able to apply fair, then (nikahilah) alone .. (Qs. An Nisaa '(4): 3). Nor should the men who are believers and not for women who mukminah and when God has set a RasulNya akan provisions have those options on their affairs. And whoever disobeyed God and RasulNya then he has been a real distraction. (Qs. Al Ahzaab (33): 36). -Suggestion for the suggestion he Married: Rasulullah SAW said: "Nikah sunnahku that, anyone who does not like, not golonganku!" (HR. Ibn Majah, from Aisyah ra). Four different-Sunna Sunna of the Messenger, ie: berkasih unfortunately, the wewangian, bersiwak and married (HR. Tirmidzi). She's, "Nikahilah olehmu women that, then they will bring in wealth (food) for you? (HR. Abu Hakim and David). 14. If there are people not living with spouse, it means his life will be lame and do not run according to the commandment of Allah SWT and the marriage means the complete religious, sabda Rasulullah SAW: "Whoever is given a wife that God sholihah indeed have been fed half-religion. Bertaqwa and let the other half of God. "(HR. Baihaqi). As of the Amr Ibn, The World is the jewelry and adornment is a good woman shalihat. (HR. Muslim, Ibn Majah and An Nasai). "Three groups are eligible fed by God? (HR. Tirmidzi, and Hakim Ibn Hibban): a.? People who fought / fight in the way of Allah. B.? Budak redeem himself from the master. C.? Youth / i is married because it would dissociate himself from the unlawful. " "O young people! When diantaramu can let him marry a marriage, because the eye will be more awake, more self-akan maintained." (HR. Bukhari and Muslim from Ibn Mas'ud). Kawinlah with mencintaimu and women who are able to bear. I will boast of you as most people (Abu HR. David). You menikahlah each other, make each other keturunanlah you, and perbanyaklah (offspring). I am proud of the many numbers in the middle of the other (HR. Abdurrazak and Baihaqi). Shalat 2 rakaat the people who have diamalkan him better than 70 rakaat the diamalkan by youth (or virgin) (HR. Ady Ibn Al Kamil in the book of Abu Hurairah). Rasulullah SAW. He said: "a bad time, that is not married, and lowly-sehina corpses you, is not married" (Bukhari HR.). Among all of you is the worst in the living lackey, and the death of you all the most contemptible is the death of people who choose life lacquey (HR. Abu Ya? La and Thabrani). From Anas, Rasulullah SAW. once said: If anyone would like to meet with God in a state of pure clean again, then kawinkanlah with respectable women. (HR. Ibn Majah, dhaif). Rasulullah SAW said: Kawinkanlah those who still diantaramu alone. Verily, Allah akan edify, extend provision, and add their sublime (Al Hadith). Marriage Goals Implement the command of Allah and Sunnah Rasul. Continuing-generation Muslims as caretaker tract Islam. Muslim families realize the Muslim community. Get love and affection. Tranquility Life with maintaining self-respect (the act of self-avoiding maksiat / other contemptible behavior). So that the rich (most of the wealth is a good wife who shalihat). Extended kinship (at connecting rope / strengthen family ties) Personal readiness Qalb condition that has been steadily and increasingly confident after istikharah. Rasulullah SAW. He said:? Man Jadda Wa Jadda? (Who surely mean he will be successful through the obstacles). Including compulsory marriage (hard to shaum). Including? tathhir (mensucikan self). The material, ready to Allah. ? Let the person who is able to support the ability? (Qs. At Thalaq (65): 7) Pending due to make or Marriage Damage and destruction due to moral and girls free sex. Delayed birth of the next generation to essay. Not tenangnya Ruhani and feelings, because God gave a new calmness and affection for people who are married. Bear the sin of life in the Hereafter, because they were not married when dikerjakannya obligation requirements that God RasulNya set and met. Moreover, with the type of opponent that is not mahramnya. Rasulullah SAW. He said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let it bersunyi quiet woman with a tandem that is not accompanied mahramnya, because of which the third party is the devil." (HR. Ahmad) and "Truly, the one among you with a needle from ditusuk iron better than the woman who does not lawful for him" (HR. Thabrani and Baihaqi) .. Astaghfirullahaladzim .. Na'udzubillahi min dzalik However, generally occur in the community around the wedding is as following: That's not the glorious god-fearing, but the degree disandang: Ir, DR, SE, SH, ST, etc. Wah the wedding party / bride price is high, because pride is solitary, not hold in full accordance with the ability ketawadhu'an owned. (Marriage should be based solely only search Ridha Allah and RasulNya. Campuri Not in the hope of Ridha? Man (praise, do not feel those words). .. I believe when God once Ridha on what we do, then we will be happy in the world and the Hereafter soon.) Marriage is considered barrier for fun parents. Society considers making wedding akan study, when it is married with a vision of security more things forbidden, and the spirit of the complete study. Improve Intention: Innamal a'malu binniyat ....... Intention is the resurrection of the soul and trends on anything that appears in the form of a goal that is important for him prosecuted, either immediately or suspended. Intention When Selecting assistants He said "Whoever wed (daughter) because of strong property akan men although akhlaknya and bad religion, the marriage will never be the dibarakahi him, Who married a woman because of position, God will add to her humiliation, Who engaged women as property, God only gave akan poverty, Who married women because nasabnya good, God will add to it too short, but who is married just because you want to view and maintain nafsunya or because you want to cultivate love, God always gives blessed kebarakahan and add it on. "( HR. Thabrani). "Do not marry a woman because of beauty, beauty that may only makes you contemptible. Do not you marry a woman as property / wealth may tahtanya / tahtanya makes you exceed the limit. Nikahilah However, because of religious women. For, a slave woman who Shaleh, although poor face is better. " (HR. Ibn Majah). Prophet SAW. He said: Do not you marry close relatives, for the (consequences) can bear a child who is weak (both intellect and physical) (Al Hadith). Jabir's r.a., Verily the Prophet SAW. has said,? Surely her people because dinikahi religion, position, wealth, beauty, and then choose the religious. "(HR. Muslim and Tirmidzi). Intention in The Marriage Problems intention not to stop selecting assistants. Intention still attached to the various matters related to the occurrence of marriage. Start of dower, menebar invitation walimah, holding walimah. Walimah more than two days closer to the mudharat, are walimah third day including riya '. "Give mahar (dowry) to women (which you nikahi) as with the full blessing." (Qs. An Nisaa (4): 4). Rasulullah SAW said: "Women's most magnificent barakahnya, is the most lightweight maharnya" (HR. Ahmad, Al Hakim, Al Baihaqi with a sanad shahih). She's, that the Prophet SAW. has said, "Surely blessing of the marriage is a simple shopping (maharnya)" (HR. Ahmad). Prophet SAW had promised: "Do not mempermahal value portion. Indeed, if man is noble in the world and piety in Allah, the Prophet himself who will be the guardian pernikahannya." (Sunan HR. Ashhabus). From Anas, he said: "Abu Umm Sulaim Thalhah marry with a dowry keIslamannya" (from Ditakhrij An Nasa'i) .. Subhanallah .. The process of marriage affect intention. The process of the wedding simple and easy to Allah akan bersihnya approach to intention, can facilitate the process of marriage rarefy intention. Meanwhile, make the wedding akan mengkotori intention. "Adakanlah the cut only once a goat." (HR. Bukhari and Muslim) Marriage must meet the criteria Lillah, Billah, and Ilallah. Lillah is, is the intention that marriage should be for God. And how the process should Billah, in accordance with the provisions of God .. Including in the selection of candidates, and the process toward marriage levels (net of court / lust or not). Last Ilallah, in order to achieve the objective keridhoan God. So in a marriage does not engage in immoral acts on God; for example: the separation between the front men and women, do not exaggerate, do not eat while standing (courtesy of food usually dimasyarakat-party standing is a must in avoiding, but not by examplizeing that Rasulullah SAW ), not The disandingkan, courtesy of mendo'akan with do'a: Barokallahu lacker baroka wa 'alaikum wa jama'a baynakuma fii khoir .. (May Allah bestow membarakahi you and blessed to you), do not shake hands with the opposite type, not be excessive ( "And do not bertabarruj (make up) as the first tabarrujnya jahiliyah" - Qs. Al-Ahzab (33), Reaching Marriage Ruhani If someone is filled with longing and devotion to God, he will try to find someone with the same. The psychological, someone will feel calm and tentram when communicating with people with the same, whether in person, views of life and so forth. Therefore, be happy that someone can experience God's love for the pairing of his life, that is, the people in his heart that God is present in full. They love each other not on behalf of themselves, but in the name of God and to God. How beautiful meeting of two human love each other and miss God. Their marriage is not merely the meeting of two different types of man, but two meetings ruhani that are meniti journey toward God, lovers of their loved ones. That is the wedding ruhani. KALO KITA BERKUALITAS in the sight of GOD, PASTI WILL ALSO A DATANG (Jodoh TO OUR) BERKUALITAS THAT? Pula (Al Izzah 18 / Th. 2) Conclusion "O, people believe! Do not forbid what the Permitted by God to you, and you do not exceed the limit, because God does not love those who exceed the limit." (Qs. Al Maidaah (5): 87). Indeed, because after that there are easier difficulty. And indeed after the difficulties that have the ease (Qs. Nature Nasyrah (94): 5 - 6). Ibunda and Ayahanda that I respect, I care about and I love the name of God .. demikanlah this proposal (the character) I write. I really hope Ibunda and Ayahanda .. I understand the desire. Top blessing and prayer from Ibunda and Ayahanda .. I say "Jazakumullah Khairan katsiira". "O Allah, make me ridho against what you set and made BAROKAH what you have takdirkan, so I do not want to hurry anything that you delay and delay what you segerakan .. GOD YES give reward MUSIBAHKU TIMES IN THIS AND THAT MORE replace for EITHER of Amiin .. " ==================================== Dedicated to: My inspiration .... who had come around and occupy "the heart" ... Astaghfirullah! When the virtual world have, not on earth menapak him .. Then, kucoba wave set up .. Robbi heard calling tuk meniti road RidhoMu .. Kuharap have your servants from the auxiliary leg runner up in the way of thy long road, and accompany dakwah should I titi .. "When Love and Rindu? Tuk gapai Heaven and martyr in the way disturb .."